Well....what can I say. Life is well.....life.
I am training to become a team leader at work, and for those of you that don't know where that is..I work at Chick-Fil-A. It keeps me busy and I really enjoy that. Well, since I haven't updated this blog since Dec 16th I thought I should get typing away on here huh? Well......lemme just say....GUYS ARE STUPID PRICKS!!!!
Now, lemme tell you why I say that.......I work a FULL TIME job, take care of 2 1/2 year old virutually all by myself, do ALL the laundry, try to keep our part of the house clean, help with dinner (I live with my in laws so they like to do the cooking) and...well...you get the idea...
So, you're probably asking yourself...What does he do? NOTHING! He sits on his a$$ and plays on the computer or plays video games if he is at home-LAME-O!!!! He will sit there and ask me to do that SAME damn thing he could do, but because he is so lazy he won't get up and do it himself. I mean, the other day he got upset at Asher because he was getting into something like less than 3 ft. away from him. I was about 10 ft. away doing something in the kitchen (now mind you I was DOING SOMETHING....he wasn't doing anything but sitting on his a$$ on the couch.) Asher got into something he wasn't supposed to and rather than getting up from where he was and taking care of it himself, he yelled at me for not watching him (hey, prick, I was doing something taking care of you. I was helping with dinner.) Yeah, uncalled for, but a dailly occurance.
Now, on that note...I will say one more thing...
Have you ever tried something so much you are just all "tried out"?
Anyway, that's my rant for right now. Talk to you later.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
After a long hiatus
Well, it's been a while since my last post, but we are now in TX and I am so glad to be here. I recently started a position as a team member with Chick-Fil-A, and I love it.
Not much has happened in my oh-so-wonderfully-exciting life, but the continual running around after my 2 1/2 year old. Speaking of 2 1/2 year olds.....I just had to spank him.....grr. I hate that, it makes me feel like such an awful parent.
Well, on the marriage homefront....yeah, well, there's not really much to talk about. Guys are pricks and rude?
I am currently living with the in-laws, I enjoy it. Like I said, I'm glad to be back in TX. This is where my heart is. Today there is not much to report, but I will be better at posting later. Byes
Not much has happened in my oh-so-wonderfully-exciting life, but the continual running around after my 2 1/2 year old. Speaking of 2 1/2 year olds.....I just had to spank him.....grr. I hate that, it makes me feel like such an awful parent.
Well, on the marriage homefront....yeah, well, there's not really much to talk about. Guys are pricks and rude?
I am currently living with the in-laws, I enjoy it. Like I said, I'm glad to be back in TX. This is where my heart is. Today there is not much to report, but I will be better at posting later. Byes
Friday, June 12, 2009
Friday!!
Well, I am home sick today with a sore throat, a headache, congestion, and I can't breathe. AAAHHH I love work...but I think it was them who made me sick :(
Well, I has been about a month that I have been working there and in that time I have learned a lot of who I am and who I want to be. I NEED to be me! I was telling a friend the other day that I have NOT done anything for MYSELF in the entire time I have been married and always been focused on being a wife and a mother. Don't get me wrong, I love having family and all that, but geez, you have to take time out to be you or you just get soo stressed you don't know which way is up.
Like I mentioned, I have learned a lot of myself while there and have been taught by some of the best people I know. Now there are some people that for some reason think they have nothing better to do than to just sit around and "try to start rumors" and "talk about you", but there are true genuine people there who really care.
Well, for instance, NOBODY up at work likes Kent, NOBODY! Everytime he calls up there or shows his face he makes an a** of himself! I am constantly being told "you don't need to put up with that", "nobody should be treated like that"," you don't deserve to be talked to like that", "how can he BRAG about being a minister, and act that way". Well, yes, they are right! I don't know why he does the things that he does, I don't know why he finds it necessary to treat me like I am lower than him. We are all equal and it's time he starts realizing it. He is also EXTREMLY EXTREMLY controlling of me and the things that I do. He has even accused me of shirking my responsibilities her at home. No, NO AT ALL. The problem was that I wasn't at home "taking care of him". Asher was already in bed, so that shouldn't have been an issue. He was not even doing anything, but sitting on his butt and playin' video games. I admit, maybe there were things that could have been done around the house, but honestly it's not gonna kill anyone to leave them where they are a lil longer, right? Now, back to the controlling issue: he doesn't let me have ANY money when he is at work. He controls it all. NO CAR (no granted his is in the shop, but this was and has been an issue for a LONG time), I can't have friends. He gets upset when I go out with my friends and I feel like he doesn't want me to have any. I mean, he sits me down like I am his daughter and talks to me. Then when I don't respond to him he gets upset with me. I try to talk to him and he yells at me like I am his daughter and not his wife. He doesn't want me to do anything. Why does he feel the need to control EVERY ASPECT of my life?
Stay tuned....many more rants and ramblings to come. Changes too!
Well, I has been about a month that I have been working there and in that time I have learned a lot of who I am and who I want to be. I NEED to be me! I was telling a friend the other day that I have NOT done anything for MYSELF in the entire time I have been married and always been focused on being a wife and a mother. Don't get me wrong, I love having family and all that, but geez, you have to take time out to be you or you just get soo stressed you don't know which way is up.
Like I mentioned, I have learned a lot of myself while there and have been taught by some of the best people I know. Now there are some people that for some reason think they have nothing better to do than to just sit around and "try to start rumors" and "talk about you", but there are true genuine people there who really care.
Well, for instance, NOBODY up at work likes Kent, NOBODY! Everytime he calls up there or shows his face he makes an a** of himself! I am constantly being told "you don't need to put up with that", "nobody should be treated like that"," you don't deserve to be talked to like that", "how can he BRAG about being a minister, and act that way". Well, yes, they are right! I don't know why he does the things that he does, I don't know why he finds it necessary to treat me like I am lower than him. We are all equal and it's time he starts realizing it. He is also EXTREMLY EXTREMLY controlling of me and the things that I do. He has even accused me of shirking my responsibilities her at home. No, NO AT ALL. The problem was that I wasn't at home "taking care of him". Asher was already in bed, so that shouldn't have been an issue. He was not even doing anything, but sitting on his butt and playin' video games. I admit, maybe there were things that could have been done around the house, but honestly it's not gonna kill anyone to leave them where they are a lil longer, right? Now, back to the controlling issue: he doesn't let me have ANY money when he is at work. He controls it all. NO CAR (no granted his is in the shop, but this was and has been an issue for a LONG time), I can't have friends. He gets upset when I go out with my friends and I feel like he doesn't want me to have any. I mean, he sits me down like I am his daughter and talks to me. Then when I don't respond to him he gets upset with me. I try to talk to him and he yells at me like I am his daughter and not his wife. He doesn't want me to do anything. Why does he feel the need to control EVERY ASPECT of my life?
Stay tuned....many more rants and ramblings to come. Changes too!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
whatever, whenever, wherevere. Blah Blah Blah
Well, seeing as how it has been a long time since I wrote on here, I thought to avoid getting gripped at for not updating (you know who I'm talking to...LoL) I would just go ahead and update it.
Well, it's been almost a month since I started working at McDonalds. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. The mgrs. are great, the people are great. I love having that much customer service and dealing with the customers all day long. Now granted, there are some cranky a** customers that come up in the store and try to put us all in a bad mood just because they got up on the wrong side of the bed, but we just have to keep telling ourselves that we are not going to be run by stupid a** people and allow them to determine our mood.
One (of the many) good things about working there is...since Asher has not started daycare yet, I am working opposite Kent's schedule. Those of you that know us both know how much of an a** he has been latley, and that I just don't want to be around him at times because I might blow up at him, and that would just cause more of an attitude that I am not prepared to deal with at this point. I know the day will come that I will just have to (in the words of Niecy Nash) "take a big girl pill", but I don't feel that day has come yet. LoL
Anyway, stay tuned for more rants and rambles! Love you all!
Thanks to those that read this. I know it's harsh at times.
Well, it's been almost a month since I started working at McDonalds. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. The mgrs. are great, the people are great. I love having that much customer service and dealing with the customers all day long. Now granted, there are some cranky a** customers that come up in the store and try to put us all in a bad mood just because they got up on the wrong side of the bed, but we just have to keep telling ourselves that we are not going to be run by stupid a** people and allow them to determine our mood.
One (of the many) good things about working there is...since Asher has not started daycare yet, I am working opposite Kent's schedule. Those of you that know us both know how much of an a** he has been latley, and that I just don't want to be around him at times because I might blow up at him, and that would just cause more of an attitude that I am not prepared to deal with at this point. I know the day will come that I will just have to (in the words of Niecy Nash) "take a big girl pill", but I don't feel that day has come yet. LoL
Anyway, stay tuned for more rants and rambles! Love you all!
Thanks to those that read this. I know it's harsh at times.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
new job, new attitude...etc....
Well.....I started a new job on Mon (May 5th), and so far soo good. I am enjoying the people that I work with A LOT, I really like them. I will say though that after being there for a little over a week, I have come to realize what managers are better to work and the others. There are some that clearly don't care, and then there are some that want to see me succeed. Sometimes it is just really frustrating because I know that I should be a faster learner, and I think I am pretty d*** good for only having been at the job for a little over a week, but honestly I feel as though there are mgrs. there that don't want me to stay and could give a flyin' flip whether I do it right or now.
I really am trying to have a great attitude about it, but when there are people over me that are ALWAYS upset about something and complaining...I just get down. I know, I know...I'm transparent. What can I say?
I really am trying to have a great attitude about it, but when there are people over me that are ALWAYS upset about something and complaining...I just get down. I know, I know...I'm transparent. What can I say?
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Unloved and Underappreciated!
Well, as I sit here typing this I have tears streaming down my cheeks. It's what the rest of the world called Mother's Day. Yeah, do I happen to be the ONLY women in the world married to a man that underappreciates me. I mean, really! NOT EVEN a Happy Mother's Day! What the h*** is that all about? He is more interested in his STUPID t.v./video games and working to appreciate me. I will admit that I'm not perfect, and am working on my communication skills so I have a way to go to, but at least I am willing, right? He doesn't even seem willing, and that's why I feel the way I do.
I take care of Asher ALL THE TIME, keep the house clean, and work. What does he do....go to work and come home and sit in front of the t.v. and doesn't want me to talk to him. I don't understand it. He needs to talk to me. I know that he can't read my mind, but I can't read his either. I just don't understand it.
Any imput?
I take care of Asher ALL THE TIME, keep the house clean, and work. What does he do....go to work and come home and sit in front of the t.v. and doesn't want me to talk to him. I don't understand it. He needs to talk to me. I know that he can't read my mind, but I can't read his either. I just don't understand it.
Any imput?
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Attitudes
Attitudes
When you extend pure love to everyone with selfless motivation that is an attitude of kindness.
When you send good wishes and pure feelings to those who are in deep sorrow, that is an attitude of mercy.
When you see the virtues rather than the weaknesses in people that is an attitude of compassion.
When you bless and uplift someone even as they defame you, that is an attitude of forgiveness.
When you tolerate a situation and take responsibility as well as give cooperation even when not appreciated, that is an attitude of humility and self-respect.
Every second, every moment and every breath of your life is nurtured by attitude.
When you extend pure love to everyone with selfless motivation that is an attitude of kindness.
When you send good wishes and pure feelings to those who are in deep sorrow, that is an attitude of mercy.
When you see the virtues rather than the weaknesses in people that is an attitude of compassion.
When you bless and uplift someone even as they defame you, that is an attitude of forgiveness.
When you tolerate a situation and take responsibility as well as give cooperation even when not appreciated, that is an attitude of humility and self-respect.
Every second, every moment and every breath of your life is nurtured by attitude.
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